Everyone seems to have an opinion on whether a dummy is a good thing for your child or not.
It will deform their teeth, bacteria it carries, plus many more things against the dummy for a pacifier.
The reality is that a dummy is very soothing for a baby and when you are a parent that word “soothing”
translates to “sleep”.
Here is a little information, which may help you to decide whether to use a dummy or not.
Current experts advice is not to use them before you have breast feeding well established.
Sucking is a natural activity for baby and is very calming for baby. if the baby is comforted by a dummy and it is not being used to delay a feed, or a cuddle and some attention, then it is fine.
If the baby is comforted by a dummy and it is not being used to delay a feed, or a cuddle and some attention, then it is fine.
A baby likes to suck for comfort, a dummy is a better option than sucking their thumbs, because eventually you can get rid of the dummy, but so much harder to stop thumb sucking.
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( I had a grandson that was still sucking his thumb when he went to school, other children soon put a stop to it by teasing, which was not nice for him, he still went on sucking his thumb at night when he went to bed for many years, also his teeth are perfect).
There is a theory that using a dummy can reduce the incidence of cot death, but still needs more research before it is definitive.
It has been said that using a pacifier delays speech development by preventing babies from practicing their speaking skills, but there appears to be no strong evidence of this.
Keep the dummy clean and sterilize it regularly. watch for rips or tears which may harbor bacteria.
Attach it to baby to prevent it falling to the ground, but not tied around the neck as it could lead to an accident like strangulation.
Try to aim to only using it for the first 12 months of the babies life.
If your child is reaching school age and still using a dummy you need to get serious.
There are many ways of weaning them off the dummy, but whatever way you employ, constantly reinforce your child about being grown up and not needing it any longer.
Children like being praised so praise them often as they are weaned from the dummy and it will be successful, do not ever ridicule a child or use punishment or humiliation to influence them into giving up their dummy, if you make it a problem, it won’t go away.
The key to any behavioral change is to do it without fuss, otherwise, you risk your child using the behavior to get a reaction.
Did your baby have a pacifier?
If so, please let us know what you learnt about babies having a dummy.
Best of Luck, I have been there and know it is not easy, with perseverance you will get there.